I wish you the best! I love to throw a leg over the motorcycle - my wife hates it. I love to hike and camp - that doesn't work for her either. I'm an outdoors guy who fell in love with a city girl, but I wouldn't change a thing. We found that boating is something we both love to enjoy and share...we don't have to be ripping across the water - just enjoying a quiet day together is a great time.